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Thursday, August 19, 2004

God's big plan

Sometimes i wonder if God puts in a certain place for a certain reason sometimes. And wat further confuses me on the issue is that one second all you hear is "God is in control of everything" and then the next it's"God has us do everythign at pur own free will and does not control what we do." This also goes for love "God doesn't have anything to do with who you love, or who you marry, you make yourself love them" if thats the case, why am i not married yet?!?But still, i wonder if somethings we do, and if we are in some places, for a purpose?

I was once told that "God has a reason for everything you choose o do, he gives you options and roads to follow, the free will is which one do you choose" but i catch my self wondering if this is true.does God give you paths to choose from? is every single thing we do for a purpose? Is it like where, for example, the elderly woman i mentioned in my kindness post. Do you help the woman and make her life better and also inspire others without knowing it? or do you just walk on by, and when you need her help, she denys it to you leaving you in a bad situation? are we given situations for a reason, or do we create our own situations? I have heard it both ways at once and just don't understand.