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Monday, August 15, 2005

why is sex so dirty???

:o I just said the S-E-X word. I find it so odd that people act like sex is something dirty and a dirty word, rather than something special shared between a husband and wife. It is something inappropriate when it is done outside of a marital relationship and is a sin...but some people act like it is a sin for the married people too. Prime exmple: my friends bachelorette party. We had both cases come up. we were sitting around and my married friend was telling the bride-to-be about a few things to expect on the wedding night and a few hints she wished she would have known,nothing vulger or in alot of detail. Then a few of us were talking about things to do to make it more special...again, nothing too far gone. This unfortunatly evolved into one friend giving way too many details about her and her boyfriends current love life that was a bit too far. The main arguement with this is where did it actually go too far. Some people say it was just the TMI half-hour.....But some would say the fact we were discussing it at all. Yes, no one needs to know the dirty details of what is happening in your bedroom and it should be something special between you and your husband, but is it inappropriate to seek help if there is an issue? If something is lacking and you and your husband have seriously talked about it and you have no idea what to do and you are both comfortable talking to friends who you know would have an answer...is that wrong?

Ok, i have no idea why I am wondering this because I am not even dating anyone let alone married...but i was just wondering.