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Wednesday, April 25, 2007

Why can't we be friends?

It's the question almost always asked at some point after a break-up.....Can be stay "just friends" after this? I am wondering this right now. ok, so a few weeks ago, a couple days after my last post, we broke up. well, actually let me backtrack. I told him he had to make a decision because I wasn't going to wait fo him to make a decision for forever and I had more important things to worry about than his indecisiveness. Yes, this was harsh, but It's how we both are. anywho, he tells me to come over so we can talk so i do. we decide just to take it slow and date or hang out, and then after a huge misunderstanding where he thought I said everything we ever did was meaningless everything seemed OK...almost. then the next day I call to see what time we were leaving to go somewhere and yells at me.... The real me....that didn't go so well and when i went to his house he pouted and broke it off with me. I was done and of course, went back to the partying, flirting, career driven me. so i hadn't heard from him in over a week, and he removed me from his friends list on MYSPACE (how low is that?)and everything, then BOOM! one night i am out with the girls swapping crappy man stories over a blue hawiian, and I get a text message out of nowhere from him making sure I don't hate him. I ask the same thing and after calling, him, accidentally hanging up, and calling back to apologize to his voicemail, We go on just texting occasional updated to each other (I am still not back on his myspace, and I am so not asking for an add). Well, today, he texts me to ask if we can hang out tomorrow. I told him to call me with a plan and we will see. most of my friends think it's a booty call or mind games, but the closest ones to both of us thinks he might actually miss me. I am ok with us hanging out and everything, but it would take alot for me to ever go back to him. he would have to prove to me that his is every bit as willing as I am to try to fix things and would have to prove that he can be the man in my previous post all of the time, not just once in a while.